Shall I call?

Posted:
in AppleOutsider edited January 2014
I met an amazing person a week ago. I hadn't seriously dated for several years because I was waiting for a very special person, and he showed up.



We spent almost three hours talking about the sport we both liked, history, or anything. The connection was one out of a million! Then his friends showed up and asked him to leave with them. I felt a little awkward so I took off without leaving my #. Soon enough I regretted what I did.



Later, I found his contact info. I sent him an email. It's been several days and I've not heard from him. He may not check his email at all. Shall I call? I prefer talking in person instead of leaving a message, because what if I don't hear back? When is a good time to reach someone?



BTW, he's from another state and came just for the weekend of championship competition. Any advice on what I should do to contact him?
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  • Reply 1 of 34
    sdw2001sdw2001 Posts: 18,016member
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by segovius View Post


    No, there is no advice.



    There is nothing whatsoever you can do to stop him running a mile in the opposite direction. Two miles.



    Ten.



    With a jet-pack.



    If no-one else answers it is because they have been scared off too.



    Thanks for emptying the forums.



    Cold, seg. COLD!
  • Reply 2 of 34
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by SDW2001 View Post


    Cold, seg. COLD!



    "segovius" has asked me to remove my thread. Since I'm new to this forum, I don't know how to. There's no "delete" or "remove" option as far as I can tell. Could you kindly tell me how?



    As a comment, I don't understand why I've got such reponse while some others on this forum seemed to have got supportive advice. I'm feeling sad.
  • Reply 3 of 34
    Why wouldn't you call? You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.



    You wouldn't sound too out of the ordinary by calling and saying you weren't sure if he checked his email and just wanted to say hi.



    But after your first call, let that be it. Put the ball in his court, and let him make the next move.
  • Reply 4 of 34
    shawnjshawnj Posts: 6,656member
    You're posting about love advice on a computer forum.



    Naturally, you're doomed.
  • Reply 5 of 34
    Wait just a minute there Mr. Greenthumb.



    Did your houseplant advice thread get you in the sack with your ex that night?



    If so, I don't think she's as doomed as you say.
  • Reply 6 of 34
    Hi Guybrush,



    Thanks for the advice! I really need it.
  • Reply 7 of 34
    shawnjshawnj Posts: 6,656member
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Guybrush Threepwood View Post


    Wait just a minute there Mr. Greenthumb.



    Did your houseplant advice thread get you in the sack with your ex that night?



    If so, I don't think she's as doomed as you say.







    Now that's bringing it back.
  • Reply 8 of 34
    Is this for real? Either way, it's pathetic.
  • Reply 9 of 34
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by tonton View Post


    Well if you're a girl and at least "plain" looking then you should call him.



    If you're a guy it gets a little bit trickier. If you're a guy you should definitely make sure he's interested in guys before you say anything at all or make any sort of hints.





    I'm a girl. As for the looks, it's "beauty is in the eyes of beholder".
  • Reply 10 of 34
    shawnjshawnj Posts: 6,656member
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by LoveAtFirstSight View Post


    I know what I want, and I go get it.



    Apparently not.
  • Reply 11 of 34
    Man we're jerks, aren't we?^^
  • Reply 12 of 34
    Anyone can advise me on how to delete both my account and this thread? Thanks



    Sorry I posted at the wrong place.
  • Reply 13 of 34
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by LoveAtFirstSight View Post


    Why don't you agree?



    If that were the case, love, you would have pursued this male acquaintance instead of looking for advice from a bunch of geeks.
  • Reply 14 of 34
    sdw2001sdw2001 Posts: 18,016member
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by LoveAtFirstSight View Post


    Why don't you agree?



    Because you're not calling. Seriously, call. Send him slutty pictures too. That's always a plus.
  • Reply 15 of 34
    Anyone can advise me on how to delete both my account and this thread? Thanks



    Sorry I posted at the wrong place.
  • Reply 16 of 34
    sdw2001sdw2001 Posts: 18,016member
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by LoveAtFirstSight View Post


    Anyone can advise me on how to delete both my account and this thread? Thanks



    Sorry I posted at the wrong place.



    It requires you PMing us slutty pictures in the manner tonton described above.



    No really. I don't know how to delete one's account. You can't delete the thread either...only a mod can.
  • Reply 17 of 34
    e1618978e1618978 Posts: 6,075member
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by LoveAtFirstSight View Post


    Anyone can advise me on how to delete both my account and this thread? Thanks



    Sorry I posted at the wrong place.



    Now we are the ones getting rejected... 8)
  • Reply 18 of 34
    A girl has carelessly walked into the room. Someone lock the door.
  • Reply 19 of 34
    Has the whiff of a spammer. I don't believe this post.
  • Reply 20 of 34
    Maybe it's macgeek200x...
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