Quote:
Originally Posted by
tonton 
Quote:
Originally Posted by
MJ1970 
Quote:
Originally Posted by
tonton 
The pope opposes gay marriage and gay adoption for one. That's tearing apart families. It's not lying. You're lying to say that these policies do not.
This opposition is not "tearing families apart." This is merely your histrionic characterization. It is lying to say otherwise. I'm not lying to say that their position is not actually "tearing families apart" and is simply your histrionic characterization of a position that you disagree with.
What you've said in the above sentence is a bald-faced fucking lie. How many fathers and mothers have disowned their sons and daughters because of sexuality issues, enabled by church doctrine? That's not tearing apart a family!!?? How many gay couples want to raise a child, and church policy and laws enabled by that policy preclude them from doing so? That's not tearing apart a (potential) loving family? How many gay couples would work harder to make their relationship work if there were official recognition? Their family is not being torn apart by their inability to be recognized as a family?
This is another argument that you are not going to win. However distasteful one might find much of Catholic doctrine to be, whether past or current, the Church can always point out that participation is optional (at least in modern times), and that expressing deeply held religious beliefs is a right and imposes no harm on others. While that argument may seem disingenuous to the point of absurdity, the first two assertions are technically correct and the third is too subjective to refute. That leaves the final irony that in trying to defend others from what you may regard as harmful indoctrination, you leave yourself open to the charge of authoritarianism. It's a surprisingly hard position to tackle head on.