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Exactly.

I find it hilarious that people like Newt Gingritch, who has a certain "history" with marriage, declare that same sex marriage will ruin the institution of marriage. Right.

Quite to the contrary, I believe same sex marriage will strengthen marriage, as it redeclares that marriage is an act out of love, and not out of duty. Even heterosexual marriage will gain from this.

 

At this stage nothing can really strengthen marriage because it isn't a real contract anymore. When anyone can dissolve a contract at any time, without cause and without penalty, then it isn't a real contract. Heterosexual marriage has been declining for decades. As I've advocated in the past, the solution isn't to say that one size must fit even more of the all. It is to try some different solutions. That is why I advocated for civil unions for heterosexual couples. It is why I support covenant marriage. It is why I would support limited term marriage contracts as well.

 

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I'm absolutely sure the people of Oklahoma or Kentucky would vote to outlaw interracial marriage if put to a vote. Should they have that right? Please explain again why same sex marriage is any different, without reverting to the "definition of marriage" bullshit argument.

And I assume you would as vehemently oppose DOMA and other national anti-marriage measures as strongly as you would oppose a "Roe" style legalization?

 

You have no proof of that assertion. You're just projecting a caricature in your head. Oklahoma is 68% white and has 32% non-white population which makes it a lot more tolerant and diverse than say.....HONG KONG which is still 95% Chinese. Also Oklahoma is second in the nation in mixed marriages.

 

So as is usual, you're talking out your ass and projecting hate onto others while practicing stereotyping and hatred yourself.

 

DOMA is broken into multiple sections. I supported and continue to support the section that stipulates that because a law is passed in one state, the other state does not have to grant the same status with regard to marriage. That is known as Section 2. Section 3 is different because it defines marriage as only man and woman and I support gay marriage. I'd prefer the matter NOT be federalized because I would prefer the government experiment with and allow more relationship forms and I feel that is unlikely to happen if the matter is federalized.

 

Also I do not and would not support federalization of abortion prohibition. Overturning Roe v Wade would return the matter to the states. This is exactly, as an example, where you believe marijuana legislation ought to be determined. It is the appropriate level of government for all-non federal matters and that is what we should return to with regard to our Federal Government.

 

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Big news in the coming months...

 

Prop 8 and DOMA are both up for USSC review.

 

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Actually I'd bet that several pro-marriage equality groups are white knuckling this review. The various Prop 8 rulings, especially the one by the 9th are just terrible, terrible rulings. The 9th limited their decision to California exclusively so even if they were upheld, it wouldn't federalize the matter because of the absurdity of the Prop 8 ruling. The ruling is ridiculously narrow because the grounds on which it is based are absurd. That isn't to say that using DOMA, the Supreme Court couldn't render a federalized ruling though. Finally the court is also looking into these matters because both the Brown administration and Obama administration has refused to enforce their own laws or assume the role of arguing them in court.

 

In my ideal world, here is how it would play out.

 

The Supreme Court would create case law aka rule about who may have standing to defend acts when an executive branch refuses to do their job.

The Supreme Court would uphold Prop 8 declaring that it is appropriate for voters to amend their Constitutions on state related matters.

The Supreme Court would uphold Section 2 of DOMA declaring that one state cannot force another state to accept their relationship definitions.

The Supreme Court would overturn Section 3 of DOMA declaring that federal marriage definition can only recognize heterosexual marriage.

 

This would allow the federal government to recognize gay marriage from any state that has passed it in terms of taxes, etc. It would still allow states to try other relationship forms more easily because they are allowed to amend legislation and their constitutions without fear that they can never alter that change. (Prop 8 absurdity) It wouldn't force any state to accept in strange or errant rulings by future courts or cases (suppose some FLDS group won a case in a small court in Kansas for polygamy as an example.) It would make the executive branch do their job or let some one be appointed to do their job with regard to standing for case.

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Let me try to be more clear. I have no problem with homosexual people (and their supporters) from attempting to make the case and argue for 100% equality and status in all things. The thing I object to is using force to achieve their objectives.

 

I understand.  That is actually the point I was trying to make, albeit clumsily.  

 

 

 

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Morally speaking, I believe that homosexual behavior and conduct is wrong, and is wrong in the eyes of God. But, again, I don't intend to impose this moral value onto anyone.

 

Interesting.  I don't view it as morally wrong, though we seem to have a similar position on this issue.  

 

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Which is why hospitals should be publicly owned.  You don't always get to determine which hospital you are going to in an emergency situation.  Knowing the management's policy on being heartless assholes ahead of time isn't always feasible--nor is it possible to avoid if they are the only one in network in the area.  Society absolutely does have a right to tell those ignorant twats running the hospital to **** off and be humane.

 

Oh boy....this will be good.  

 

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And, indeed, government-owned facilities have no such right.

 

As to whether all such facilities should be government owned, that's a different debate.

 

Tell me, does this reasoning of yours also apply to restaurants? Hotels? Apartment buildings? Etc.? Or only things that require imminent, emergency decision-making?

 

 

Society? Who is "society?" Can I write him a letter? Can I go visit with him and have a chat? Buy him a beer?

 

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You believe that private business is more trustworthy than an elected Government. This is scary.

 

What's scary is that you continue to trust elected government with ever-increasing power and reach, no matter how many times it proves it's incompetent, corrupt and incapable of doing pretty much everything.  

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post #163 of 181
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At this stage nothing can really strengthen marriage because it isn't a real contract anymore. When anyone can dissolve a contract at any time, without cause and without penalty, then it isn't a real contract. Heterosexual marriage has been declining for decades. As I've advocated in the past, the solution isn't to say that one size must fit even more of the all. It is to try some different solutions. That is why I advocated for civil unions for heterosexual couples. It is why I support covenant marriage. It is why I would support limited term marriage contracts as well.

 

Agreed.  

 

 

 

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You have no proof of that assertion. You're just projecting a caricature in your head. Oklahoma is 68% white and has 32% non-white population which makes it a lot more tolerant and diverse than say.....HONG KONG which is still 95% Chinese. Also Oklahoma is second in the nation in mixed marriages.

 

So as is usual, you're talking out your ass and projecting hate onto others while practicing stereotyping and hatred yourself.

 

Hey, at least it's not unexpected.  You knew that he and someone else with the initials BR couldn't have a discussion about the topic without casting aspersions upon all who have even a slightly different position.  It's full recognition of same sex marriage and outright advocacy of every gay rights position, or you're a hater.  See thread title.  

 

 

 

 

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DOMA is broken into multiple sections. I supported and continue to support the section that stipulates that because a law is passed in one state, the other state does not have to grant the same status with regard to marriage. That is known as Section 2. Section 3 is different because it defines marriage as only man and woman and I support gay marriage. I'd prefer the matter NOT be federalized because I would prefer the government experiment with and allow more relationship forms and I feel that is unlikely to happen if the matter is federalized.

 

Section 1 will probably come down to an Equal Protection argument.  I don't know whether states' rights or the federal solution wins.  I suspect there will be some middle ground.  

 

 

 

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Also I do not and would not support federalization of abortion prohibition. Overturning Roe v Wade would return the matter to the states. This is exactly, as an example, where you believe marijuana legislation ought to be determined. It is the appropriate level of government for all-non federal matters and that is what we should return to with regard to our Federal Government.

 

Yes, good example...one which I'm sure will be ignored :)  Here again, if you even mention that you favor overturning Roe, you're branded "anti-choice" and "anti-women" and "anti-reproductive rights."  The notion that someone could actually support choice in most cases and favor overturning Roe (like me) is incomprehensible to some our lib...eh, progressive friends.  

 

 

 

 

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Actually I'd bet that several pro-marriage equality groups are white knuckling this review. The various Prop 8 rulings, especially the one by the 9th are just terrible, terrible rulings. The 9th limited their decision to California exclusively so even if they were upheld, it wouldn't federalize the matter because of the absurdity of the Prop 8 ruling. The ruling is ridiculously narrow because the grounds on which it is based are absurd. That isn't to say that using DOMA, the Supreme Court couldn't render a federalized ruling though. Finally the court is also looking into these matters because both the Brown administration and Obama administration has refused to enforce their own laws or assume the role of arguing them in court.

 

In my ideal world, here is how it would play out.

 

The Supreme Court would create case law aka rule about who may have standing to defend acts when an executive branch refuses to do their job.

The Supreme Court would uphold Prop 8 declaring that it is appropriate for voters to amend their Constitutions on state related matters.

The Supreme Court would uphold Section 2 of DOMA declaring that one state cannot force another state to accept their relationship definitions.

The Supreme Court would overturn Section 3 of DOMA declaring that federal marriage definition can only recognize heterosexual marriage.

 

This would allow the federal government to recognize gay marriage from any state that has passed it in terms of taxes, etc. It would still allow states to try other relationship forms more easily because they are allowed to amend legislation and their constitutions without fear that they can never alter that change. (Prop 8 absurdity) It wouldn't force any state to accept in strange or errant rulings by future courts or cases (suppose some FLDS group won a case in a small court in Kansas for polygamy as an example.) It would make the executive branch do their job or let some one be appointed to do their job with regard to standing for case.

 

Excellent analysis.  I think that would probably be a good outcome (the ruling).  I doubt that the USSC will simply declare gay marriage legal on equal protection grounds.  It will be interesting to see what they do in terms of balancing states' rights and equal protection as it applies to them.   

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post #164 of 181
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The haters are now helping.

 

 

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But here's the good news: TVC, NOM, AFA, FRC—all the acronymed assholes—are losing the debate over the humanity and equality of gay people. And the insanely bigoted rhetoric that bothers you so much is one of the reasons they're losing the debate.

When you see those comments, AAAAA, when you find yourself getting upset, just remember that TVC and NOM and FRC and AFA are all shooting themselves in the foot. So are all the freelance haters lurking in comments threads on blogs and on news websites spouting off about buttsecks and feces and pedophilia.

You see, today most people know someone who's LGBT. The homophobic nonsense that straight people used to find so persuasive—gay people are all icky perverts! they're coming for your children! they hate the family!—doesn't work on straight people who actually know someone who's LGBT. People like, oh, Sen. Rob Portman.

Hateful bullshit peddlers like Tony Perkins offend more people than they persuade. And they don't just offend LGBT people. Not anymore. When anti-gay bigots rant about dirty, dirty buttsecks or compare being gay to drunk driving, they offend straight people who know and love gay people. They offend our friends, our neighbors, our coworkers, and our families. And increasingly they're offending people who are on the fence about LGBT rights, people who may not know anyone who's LGBT—but, hey, they like Ellen Degeneres lady on the TV. She seems so nice, right? Nothing like a drunk driver.

We have to fight back, of course, we have to respond to their garbage arguments, we have to confront their bigotry, and refute their lies. But when it's all over—when LGBT people achieve our full civil equality—we should remember to send all the newly unemployed assholes at NOM and FRC and TVC and AFA a thank-you note. Because at this point in the struggle for LGBT civil rights, AAAAA, the assholes at NOM and FRC and TVC and AFA bring that day closer every time they open their hateful mouths.

 

Though, as quoted earlier in the article, it would be much better if people like Congressman Portman would have thought about other people's feelings before he was directly affected by the consequences of his party's bigotry.  It's great that Portman is now suddenly in favor of marriage equality. 

 

 

 

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Paul Krugman also said it quite well...

 

 

 

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Political virtue consists in standing for what’s right, even — or indeed especially — when it doesn’t redound to your own benefit. Someone should ask Portman why he didn’t take a stand for, you know, other people’s children.

 

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Face it, haters, we've reached a tipping point.
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What tipping point are you referring to?
 

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What tipping point are you referring to?
 


Recognition of same sex marriage is going to snowball. The Bible Belt and the Deep South will continue to oppose, but I see every blue state and every northern state legalizing same sex marriage within ten years. Then it's going to go national as a human rights issue.

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Perhaps you are right. The Eastern states are really starting to recognize same sex marriage quite a bit now.
 

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Time has it right.  It's still not too late to drop your hate.

 

 

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post #170 of 181

This still disgusts me to no end.

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What tipping point are you referring to?
 


Recognition of same sex marriage is going to snowball. The Bible Belt and the Deep South will continue to oppose, but I see every blue state and every northern state legalizing same sex marriage within ten years. Then it's going to go national as a human rights issue.

 

If given ten years then it will not only be recognized, but be recognized the right way, but the majority wanting it and likely legislation and amendments going into place to ensure it is this way for as long as the nation exists.

 

The wrong way to handle it would be the way that abortion has been handled whereby a court decision finds the right and then everyone spends the rest of eternity thinking up hidden litmus tests to make sure no judge might secretly hide an agenda for or against court case which is the only support for that matter.

 

Much like how true and tough love requires a parent guide their child, set limits for them and provide discipline rather than just being a friend, true support for same sex marriage means not only getting it passed, but getting it passed the right way.

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Time has it right.

 

It doesn't matter in the long run.

'Gay Marriage' has been accepted in the world before, and then restricted again when society came back to its senses.

 

America might not survive the policies leading to the intentional destruction of the family instituted by its elites over the last several decades.

 

But Christianity most certainly will.

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Comments recently posted on a newspaper article about a church pastor that stated the traditional Christian theological interpretation of marriage from the bible (i.e., one man one woman):

 

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"Well, I always thought that place was full of losers. Thanks for the confirmation!"

 

 

"The skunk has shown its stripe."
 
"And the clueless, brainwashed followers follow the message of hate and homophobia accordingly. It honestly blows my mind that any reasonable and intelligent person can still believe in something like this."
 
"Then what is the difference between your church and Westboro? You two churches have the same message; hate."

 

"Your words are literally killing children, gay children and adults. They kill themselves because of the spiritual violence your ministers are preaching. They are not just words, they are as damaging as a bullet to the head."

 

"City Council - If you all want to handle land use issues, get rid of these people and tell them they may not preach hate in town. You have no mind anyhow when it comes to paying attention to any constitution so who cares about their rights, Nix em!"

 

"A church is making political statements? That violates IRS regulations- seize their assets and shut them down."

 
"Is there any way the members, 15,000 strong, can wear an armband, necklace or other identifying label to warn us to steer clear from them?"
 

"Nero may have been on the right track."

 

 

And this is from an area that regularly and loudly preaches tolerance.

 

Haters indeed.

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I see absolutely no problem with half of those quotes and the other half are rather tame as far as internet comments are concerned.  Gay shaming literally does kill children.  The psychological abuse that goes on in churches can be far, far worse than physical abuse.  Furthermore, when churches do make political statements and violate their IRS deal, they should pay severe penalties and lose their tax-exempt statuses.  

 

One does not have to be tolerant of intolerance.  Saying I hate your hate is perfectly acceptable--in fact, calling you out on your hate and hating your hate openly is the fucking moral thing to do.

 

Your positions are utterly despicable with regard to marriage equality and putting the rights of bigots ahead of the rights of gay people.  You damn well should be shamed for such hateful and hurtful positions.

 

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Right on cue, more irrational apologetics for leftist hatred and even support for use of force against those with whom they disagree and projection of their own intolerance and hatred onto others. Classic.

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I see absolutely no problem with half of those quotes and the other half are rather tame as far as internet comments are concerned.  Gay shaming literally does kill children.  The psychological abuse that goes on in churches can be far, far worse than physical abuse.  Furthermore, when churches do make political statements and violate their IRS deal, they should pay severe penalties and lose their tax-exempt statuses.  

 

One does not have to be tolerant of intolerance.  Saying I hate your hate is perfectly acceptable--in fact, calling you out on your hate and hating your hate openly is the fucking moral thing to do.

 

Your positions are utterly despicable with regard to marriage equality and putting the rights of bigots ahead of the rights of gay people.  You damn well should be shamed for such hateful and hurtful positions.

 

Speech is not the same as a bullet to the head. The fact that you continue not to see this, along with claiming dissenting thoughts are the same as trapping people in a burning theater really shows a terrifying thought process with regard to you. Basically it is clear that you cannot separate speech from actual action and it portends some very worrisome actions on your part to stop said speech when you equate them, inappropriately with action because you feel you will be stopping an action.

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I see absolutely no problem with half of those quotes and the other half are rather tame as far as internet comments are concerned.  Gay shaming literally does kill children.  The psychological abuse that goes on in churches can be far, far worse than physical abuse.  Furthermore, when churches do make political statements and violate their IRS deal, they should pay severe penalties and lose their tax-exempt statuses.  

 

One does not have to be tolerant of intolerance.  Saying I hate your hate is perfectly acceptable--in fact, calling you out on your hate and hating your hate openly is the fucking moral thing to do.

 

Your positions are utterly despicable with regard to marriage equality and putting the rights of bigots ahead of the rights of gay people.  You damn well should be shamed for such hateful and hurtful positions.

 

An atheist justifying his own hatred of others. How surprising.

 

 

BTW, churches did not ask for and do not want any "deal" with the IRS.

That was foisted on them by the government to hamper their effectiveness in preaching morality.

 

While I don't believe churches should have to pay most taxes in an ideal society, I'm more than happy to see that change if it means we can more actively participate in public life. The 'IRS deal' is a creation of frightened liberals who know the majority hates their failed ideologies.

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post #178 of 181
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http://www.startribune.com/politics/statelocal/207231321.html

 

I've been sadly neglecting this thread.  Since the last update, we've had Minnesota today, and Delaware and Rhode Island a few weeks back.  

 

We've also had Uruguay, New Zealand, and Sao Paolo, Brazil join civilized modern society.  France is just around the corner.

 

Suck it, haters.  It's still not too late to stop being one.

 

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France joins the civilized world.  Will you join us in the 21st century?

 

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