[marriage] When did U know she was the "one"

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  • Reply 21 of 60
    dmzdmz Posts: 5,775member
    Probably within 60 seconds of hearing her speak.
  • Reply 22 of 60
    Quote:

    Originally posted by hmurchison

    Great point Vox. She's attractive, smart and caring to me but others may share a different perspective. I'm there for her regardless. I just met her mother this past weekend and her sister the weekend prior. Only her father and other friends remain. She's met my parents, brother and my extended family(which is a lot of people).



    However we both refuse to ever live with another romantic interest without marriage. Cheaper rent is nice but there has to be some sort of "joining" not just in matrimony but also in living quarters after the wedding to reach full impact.




    Nice to know there is at least one other person out there other than myself who also thinks it is a good idea to save one aspect of life together until after marriage.



  • Reply 23 of 60
    aquaticaquatic Posts: 5,602member
    I think you can tell when you are having fun just doing nothing. You can be 100% yourself. I met this girl 3 months ago and I say anything that comes to my mind. I think she would be my best friend if she was a guy. We always jinx each other (say the same thing at the same time.) I'm only 20 and she's actually still a senior in high school but I've never been in "love" until now. (insert awwww from studio audience or woooo from Saved by the Bell audience.) It SUCKS that I'm two states away 8 months out of the year. I don't know how it will work but so far so good. And she's fucking hot.
  • Reply 24 of 60
    Quote:

    Originally posted by crazychester

    Yeah well, I've got a bone to pick with you loverboy. It concerns a certain Colombian lassie. Don't give me that wide-eyed innocent look. You know what I'm talking about! I wouldn't mind if you'd gone with the French one.



    This is a crime that will be paid for. Prepare to meet your Waterloo Frenchman! En garde!



    <muttering>can't trust any of the bastards</muttering>



    Right next Hardeeharhar, Hassan. Let me at 'em........




    Hmm : the french women was not that cute ... Perhaps I should have voted for the Aussie



    I have played golf with aussies this summer. One of them was married with a french woman (he is a tennis teacher in Florida). Believe me, or not but it was the first time that I met Aussies and I enjoyed it.



    For my joke : unfortunately it was very near of the truth. We are married since eleven years now. I guess I was lucky, because we discovered months after months that we have the same project of life, and the same tastes for many things.
  • Reply 25 of 60
    Quote:

    Originally posted by Aquatic

    It SUCKS that I'm two states away 8 months out of the year. I don't know how it will work but so far so good. And she's fucking hot.



    It majorly does. I'm away too much and living not just 2 states away but 6 hours... which is at least as bad.



    I really hope they can transfer me closer to home ASAP. I need a face 2 face interaction.
  • Reply 26 of 60
    Quote:

    Originally posted by dmz

    Probably within 60 seconds of hearing her speak.



    Hmmm she's that eloquent huh? Sounds good to me. If you're going to spend the rest of your life with someone you may as well enjoy hearing them speak.



    Quote:

    think you can tell when you are having fun just doing nothing. You can be 100% yourself.



    Aquatic that is so true. I've said the most embarrasing things to her and she just laughs. Like many guys I'm not trying to say something awkward but sometimes your words don't reflect your actual meaning. It's a pleasure to have a woman with a great sense of humor.



    Ok I know this sounds stupid or even sappy but we can flip through a Pottery Barn Catalog(quality home furnishings) and pretty much pick out the same items. While that sounds extremely corny I know for a fact that couples with wildly varying taste in style can struggle a bit when living together. I know I could trust her with just about anything because our tastes are so similiar.



    However she is not electronically inclined. So it's obvious that I shall be handling the electronics in the house. Which is fine with me. I took her to Magnolia Audio Video and we had some high end Martin Logans playing and looked at a High Definition Infocus projector playing back the Olympics and she had a smile from ear to ear. That's my lady!
  • Reply 27 of 60
    Quote:

    Originally posted by Aquatic

    And she's fucking hot.



    You don't post things like that a NOT include a picture. Fucking hot is a good thing. Take a lesson from salmonstk and start posting pics.



    Quote:

    However she is not electronically inclined. So it's obvious that I shall be handling the electronics in the house. Which is fine with me. I took her to Magnolia Audio Video and we had some high end Martin Logans playing and looked at a High Definition Infocus projector playing back the Olympics and she had a smile from ear to ear. That's my lady!



    Electronics and grilling have become elements of the male domain, at least in America. I wouldn't worry about it.
  • Reply 28 of 60
    My wife is hot, and she is a high school teacher. All she uses are Macs. Doesn't even know the first thing about how to run a PC. Can it get any better than that?!



  • Reply 29 of 60
    The very first time I saw her !!!!!



    Like a bolt of lightning I just knew that I would marry her, And sure enough 7 years later I did (Aug 2000).



    Strange she was at college with my best friend for a whole year before we met, Louise (best friend) kept saying "I have met this girl and she is perfect for you" which I of course ignored.



    Just goes to show you should always listen to meddling do gooder friends



    j.
  • Reply 30 of 60
    placeboplacebo Posts: 5,767member
    Quote:

    Originally posted by Splinemodel

    You don't post things like that a NOT include a picture. Fucking hot is a good thing. Take a lesson from salmonstk and start posting pics.



    Or hire salmonstk for an afternoon porn, er, photography session...
  • Reply 31 of 60
    a_greera_greer Posts: 4,594member
    Quote:

    Originally posted by Placebo

    I deplore the fact that the thread title says 'she'. Are you intolerant of women and gays on this forum? (Of which I'm neither?)



    HOLY $HIT! GIRL GEEKS...CODE BLUE...BEGIN COOTIE ANIALATION SEQUENCE IN 3?2?1?

    {/sarcasm}



    But really?girls at AI? Are there any?

    If yes, maybe we should have a mac-love-connection thing, profiles searchable like match.com?or something?
  • Reply 32 of 60
    Quote:

    Originally posted by a_greer

    But really?girls at AI? Are there any?

    If yes, maybe we should have a mac-love-connection thing, profiles searchable like match.com?or something?




    Chicks at AI? Good god man, the place has got standards. And dicks don't grow on trees you know. Next thing you'll be suggesting we should let PC users in.



    Quote:

    Originally posted by Powerdoc

    Perhaps I should have voted for the Aussie



    Well duh. Anyway, it's not over till the fat lady sings........



    Quote:

    I have played golf with aussies this summer.



    Did we win?
  • Reply 33 of 60
    Quote:

    Originally posted by a_greer

    HOLY $HIT! GIRL GEEKS...CODE BLUE...BEGIN COOTIE ANIALATION SEQUENCE IN 3?2?1?

    {/sarcasm}



    But really?girls at AI? Are there any?

    If yes, maybe we should have a mac-love-connection thing, profiles searchable like match.com?or something?




    "....My turn ons are women with dual processors....My turn offs are women who still use CRT monitors...."



  • Reply 34 of 60
    Quote:

    Originally posted by crazychester

    ...



    Did we win?




    The best aussie player winned : he was really a great player.
  • Reply 35 of 60
    giaguaragiaguara Posts: 2,724member
    Quote:

    Originally posted by a_greer

    HOLY $HIT! GIRL GEEKS...CODE BLUE...BEGIN COOTIE ANIALATION SEQUENCE IN 3?2?1?

    {/sarcasm}



    But really?girls at AI? Are there any?

    If yes, maybe we should have a mac-love-connection thing, profiles searchable like match.com?or something?




    Me.



    Hah. yes there is a searchable thing, search on [BEEEEEEEEP] Directory. Everyone is a 100 % Mac user. Though not all are command line litterate.



    Or use any means you can to find girl geeks. Including Appleinsider (sorry dude I'm taken). Or talk to your local female mac geniuses etc ..



    My hint to a fellow fruit company worker to find a gf: "try to see if you find any females in any cocoa programming usergroups.. "
  • Reply 36 of 60
    Quote:

    Originally posted by Powerdoc

    I have played golf with aussies this summer. One of them was married with a french woman (he is a tennis teacher in Florida). Believe me, or not but it was the first time that I met Aussies and I enjoyed it.

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    Gotta agree with you Powerdoc, I think Aussies are awesome as well.



    And even better, I am one!



    iDunno
  • Reply 37 of 60
    Quote:

    Originally posted by iDunno

    Gotta agree with you Powerdoc, I think Aussies are awesome as well.



    And even better, I am one!



    iDunno




    It's unfortunate that australia is so far away from Europe. 27 hours of flight : is not for me
  • Reply 38 of 60
    giaguaragiaguara Posts: 2,724member
    Quote:

    Originally posted by Powerdoc

    It's unfortunate that australia is so far away from Europe. 27 hours of flight : is not for me



    That's a lot of fun you can have ... when you sit next to her. In an empty plane. OR when the toilets are bigger than those on British..



    err... 27 hours? that's like more than it takes to get from TX to here..
  • Reply 39 of 60
    dorndorn Posts: 28member
    Hey i live in TX!



    hmm Aus > Australia yea that works heh.
  • Reply 40 of 60
    giaguaragiaguara Posts: 2,724member
    tonton i'd be amazed if you had any real success except in china on that matter.



    but back to the original topic ... err. i just knew.
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