Apple remembers Robin Williams with iTunes tribute page

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  • Reply 61 of 103
    tundraboy wrote: »
    Two soldiers can serve the same tour of duty, in the same unit, walk into the same firefights side by side, suffer the same wounds, and one could come off tour mentally and emotionally unscathed while the other suffers full blown PTSD. There is no hard and fast rule as to who gets PTSD and who doesn't. Just as there is no hard and fast rule as to who can cope with depression just enough to fend of suicidal urges and who can't.

    People who think Robin Williams was stupid, pathetic, selfish or cowardly for killing himself: you really think he wasn't aware that suicide inflicts horrific emotional carnage on loved ones left behind? This man who talked to the public candidly and knowledgeably about battling his demons? Who checked himself into rehab voluntarily as recent as a few weeks ago?

    Instead of condemning the man, I come away thinking he must have been experiencing excruciating psychic pain if he still killed himself despite knowing how much he will hurt the people he loves.

    A little compassion folks. And be thankful that no matter how little of it you have today, it will in no way affect the quality of care that you will get from the mental health profession should you someday find yourself needing their expertise and compassion.

    And if you still feel like bashing Robin Williams, read this and hang your head in shame you little, little man.

    http://m.tickld.com/x/robin-williams-may-have-had-his-problems-but-this-is-amazing

    Thank you for your wise post.
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  • Reply 62 of 103
    I was sad to hear of his death.

    There are no character flaws required for suicide; just the world.

    Suicide is still a personal decision, no matter one's mental or physical condition. It's different from murder in that way. People may not like or understand why he did what he did, but at least it was his choice.

    Suicide is a complex thing. If you were being tortured and were offered the chance to kill yourself, would you take it? Would it be right? Is it a fair choice?

    Tough questions. No easy answers.
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  • Reply 63 of 103
    brlawyer wrote: »
    dcj001 wrote: »
     

    Fortunately, for you, you have no idea what you are talking about. 

    Well, if I did I would probably be in the same place as he is right now. Which doesn't change my opinion in the slightest - he had a loving wife and kids; NOTHING in this world justifies taking your own life like that, particularly when so many people love, care about and depend on you. 

    After all, suicide is the ultimate act of selfishness and cowardice - you get away from this world without even caring about those left behind. 

    So please spare me from your condescending crap about depression as if it were just a "chemical imbalance" - nobody tied the rope for him; he was perfectly aware of his actions and did it himself, to the despair of his loving family. So whatever.

    So you're saying that Robin Williams didn't care about those he left behind. You're speaking on behalf of a dead man who can't exactly speak for himself.

    You say it's the ultimate act of selfishness and cowardice. He could be going from hell to heaven or from hell to hell. Bit of a gamble.
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  • Reply 64 of 103
    Marvinmarvin Posts: 15,586moderator
    You're trapped in a burning building though so rolling means rolling in more fire. You'd have to choose the gun.

    Or leaving the building.

    trapped (træpt) adjective
    unable to escape, as from a situation

    I used that word in the analogy because a state of mind is similarly inescapable. Mind-altering chemicals give a temporary escape.
    Anyway, it is not “perfectly okay” to kill yourself, regardless of the situation.

    Why is it any different from doing anything else? It's your life, I say it's your choice what you do with it. You're not a possession or accountable to anyone for your own existence.
    brlawyer wrote:
    he had a loving wife and kids; NOTHING in this world justifies taking your own life like that, particularly when so many people love, care about and depend on you.

    Financially, the family should be ok - he even set up trust funds for his kids. They're losing emotional support but if he had died of natural causes, that would have been the case anyway.

    Everybody dies, taking your own life is just moving the date forward.

    What I find interesting is people's reactions to suicide when it comes to how they perceive individuals. There was a celebrity children's entertainer who turned out to have abused women and children over a long period and jailed recently:

    http://www.dailystar.co.uk/news/latest-news/387510/EXCLUSIVE-Suicide-risk-Rolf-Harris-Max-Clifford-jail

    "Yep he should commit suicide"
    "Well if he wants to commit harry carry then let him get on with it, it would save the tax payer a lot of money keeping in prison"

    If he had killed himself before they found out about this abuse, he'd have been getting the same tributes as Robin Williams.

    This actually happened with another TV presenter:

    http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-15507826

    Tributes poured in when he died of natural causes but then as the years went on they uncovered a huge amount of abuse (abused hospital patients, dead people, children) and then the reactions change:

    http://www.theguardian.com/media/2014/jan/18/jimmy-savile-abused-1000-victims-bbc

    When it comes to good characters like Robin Williams, that's when people say taking your own life is never justified but when it comes to abusers, that gets completely thrown out so it can't be a definitive statement.

    I don't think it's an action that has to be justified by anyone. It's a personal choice about someone's own existence and that existence will come to an end all by itself no matter what choices people make.
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  • Reply 65 of 103
    Marvin wrote: »
    trapped (træpt) adjective
    unable to escape, as from a situation

    I used that word in the analogy because a state of mind is similarly inescapable. Mind-altering chemicals give a temporary escape.
    Why is it any different from doing anything else? It's your life, I say it's your choice what you do with it. You're not a possession or accountable to anyone for your own existence.
    Financially, the family should be ok - he even set up trust funds for his kids. They're losing emotional support but if he had died of natural causes, that would have been the case anyway.

    Everybody dies, taking your own life is just moving the date forward.

    What I find interesting is people's reactions to suicide when it comes to how they perceive individuals. There was a celebrity children's entertainer who turned out to have abused women and children over a long period and jailed recently:

    http://www.dailystar.co.uk/news/latest-news/387510/EXCLUSIVE-Suicide-risk-Rolf-Harris-Max-Clifford-jail

    "Yep he should commit suicide"
    "Well if he wants to commit harry carry then let him get on with it, it would save the tax payer a lot of money keeping in prison"

    If he had killed himself before they found out about this abuse, he'd have been getting the same tributes as Robin Williams.

    This actually happened with another TV presenter:

    http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-15507826

    Tributes poured in when he died of natural causes but then as the years went on they uncovered a huge amount of abuse (abused hospital patients, dead people, children) and then the reactions change:

    http://www.theguardian.com/media/2014/jan/18/jimmy-savile-abused-1000-victims-bbc

    When it comes to good characters like Robin Williams, that's when people say taking your own life is never justified but when it comes to abusers, that gets completely thrown out so it can't be a definitive statement.

    I don't think it's an action that has to be justified by anyone. It's a personal choice about someone's own existence and that existence will come to an end all by itself no matter what choices people make.
    Your philosophy is warped and dangerous. Teaching others that suicide is wholly appropriate is a sign you may be involved in some screwed up cult.

    It is your life but you have a responsibility to humanity and loved ones. Robin Williams suffered a mental illness and may not have been fully aware of the consequences of taking his own life. More needs to be done to find improved methods of helping people with mental affliction. If there is anyone afflicted reading this, always remember that "if you've lost hope then have faith hope will eventually return. It may only involve finding the right medication that works best for you."
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  • Reply 66 of 103
    Marvinmarvin Posts: 15,586moderator
    Teaching others that suicide is wholly appropriate is a sign you may be involved in some screwed up cult.

    I would say it's screwed up to consider that life will always eventually have a Disney ending and that pro life is always the best option. There's a kid here who had a condition where his skin fell off leaving him with sores over his body. Every day he had to live in bandages and pain. I consider forcing someone to live like that to be torture:



    There was a girl here travelling as a passenger in a car, hit by a drunk driver and she ended up with severe burns, no hands:



    A woman here wanted to enhance her figure and ended up getting an infection and having her hands and feet cut off:

    http://edition.cnn.com/2014/07/01/health/diy-plastic-surgery/

    "I didn't think about losing my children. I didn't think about leaving my mother," she said. She thought instead of how death would feel. "Although I will be dead, I will not be in pain anymore."

    There was a guy here killed himself because he was sentenced to 16 years in prison:



    A criminal on the run here shot himself because he obviously realised that his life ahead was one behind bars and not worth it:



    In all of those cases, it is no one else's place to say that their lives are worth living for the sake of satisfying their own misguided world view.
    It is your life but you have a responsibility to humanity and loved ones.

    What if someone already betrayed humanity and loved ones by being a criminal and prolonging life will keep betraying them? What if someone is so physically disabled and incapacitated that they can be nothing but a burden to humanity and loved ones. To satisfy your own statement and personal responsibility, it would promote taking their life because other people's lives would be better without the burden.

    It seems Robin Williams was suffering from early stages of Parkinsons:

    http://news.sky.com/story/1318797/robin-williams-had-parkinsons-disease

    so perhaps that contributed to his decision.
    Robin Williams suffered a mental illness and may not have been fully aware of the consequences of taking his own life.

    You can't diagnose people without even talking to them.
    More needs to be done to find improved methods of helping people with mental affliction.

    It's a positive statement but an empty one. The outward symptoms are going to be trivial e.g sadness and that's it and as I've shown earlier, people don't care if you're sad, they only care if you die and by then it's too late. Take George Michael for example who has become reclusive and isolated:

    http://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/george-michael-shut-himself-world-3919444

    Sure signs of depression. What are people doing about it? Nothing because there's nothing anyone can do about it. You can't turn up at his house with a bunch of people who want to be his friend. He became isolated after splitting with his partner. The solution to that problem is for them to get back together.

    The same was true of Owen Wilson, he tried to kill himself over Kate Hudson. They then got back together but then split up again:

    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-565663/Owen-Wilson-wed-Kate-Hudson--year-tried-kill-dumped-him.html

    The feel good statements like 'chin up, there's more fish in the sea' don't work. If someone wants to be with one particular person, what is your solution for them? Drugs aren't the solution.
    If there is anyone afflicted reading this, always remember that "if you've lost hope then have faith hope will eventually return. It may only involve finding the right medication that works best for you."

    Hope-restoring medication you say. Do they keep this in the back of the pharmacy? Medication doesn't give you hope, it just makes you forget you lost it. When you're off the medication again, the reason for the suffering doesn't go away. The plan is that it just becomes less important. This can happen but sometimes it won't.
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  • Reply 67 of 103
    SpamSandwichspamsandwich Posts: 33,407member
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    Originally Posted by Marvin View Post



    ...I think it's perfectly ok to kill oneself regardless of circumstances but to invalidate the statement of 'killing yourself is never the answer', you just need to consider if you were on fire and there was a gun nearby. Would you burn to death painfully or use the gun?...

     

    Actually, in both the case of gunshots and fire, the pain receptors will typically shut off in cases of extreme pain. The affected areas just go numb.

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  • Reply 68 of 103
    Sorry, but with your so-called ready army of links accompanied by defeatist reasoning and false assumptions to back your argument that suicide is wholly appropriate, I can only conclude you are part of screwed up cult.

    Humanity has thrived because of our ability and willingness to overcome adversity.
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  • Reply 69 of 103
    comleycomley Posts: 139member
    R.I.P :-(
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    SpamSandwichspamsandwich Posts: 33,407member
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by YvesVilleneuve View Post



    Sorry, but with your so-called ready army of links accompanied by defeatist reasoning and false assumptions to back your argument that suicide is wholly appropriate, I can only conclude you are part of screwed up cult.



    Humanity has thrived because of our ability and willingness to overcome adversity.

     

    You are aware that people are not immortal, right?

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  • Reply 71 of 103
    You are aware that people are not immortal, right?
    Totally aware. Anyone with a painful or terminal illness can offer their experiences to the advancement of better care and finding a cure or vaccine.

    If one has contracted Ebola, should they have the right to commit suicide?
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  • Reply 73 of 103
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Marvin View Post

     
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Tallest Skil View Post

     
    Quote:
    You're trapped in a burning building though so rolling means rolling in more fire. You'd have to choose the gun.




    Or leaving the building.




    trapped (træpt) adjective

    unable to escape, as from a situation



    I used that word in the analogy because a state of mind is similarly inescapable. Mind-altering chemicals give a temporary escape.
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Tallest Skil View Post



    Anyway, it is not “perfectly okay” to kill yourself, regardless of the situation.




    Why is it any different from doing anything else? It's your life, I say it's your choice what you do with it. You're not a possession or accountable to anyone for your own existence.
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by brlawyer 

    he had a loving wife and kids; NOTHING in this world justifies taking your own life like that, particularly when so many people love, care about and depend on you.




    Financially, the family should be ok - he even set up trust funds for his kids. They're losing emotional support but if he had died of natural causes, that would have been the case anyway.



    Everybody dies, taking your own life is just moving the date forward.



    What I find interesting is people's reactions to suicide when it comes to how they perceive individuals. There was a celebrity children's entertainer who turned out to have abused women and children over a long period and jailed recently:



    http://www.dailystar.co.uk/news/latest-news/387510/EXCLUSIVE-Suicide-risk-Rolf-Harris-Max-Clifford-jail



    "Yep he should commit suicide"

    "Well if he wants to commit harry carry then let him get on with it, it would save the tax payer a lot of money keeping in prison"



    If he had killed himself before they found out about this abuse, he'd have been getting the same tributes as Robin Williams.



    This actually happened with another TV presenter:



    http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-15507826



    Tributes poured in when he died of natural causes but then as the years went on they uncovered a huge amount of abuse (abused hospital patients, dead people, children) and then the reactions change:



    http://www.theguardian.com/media/2014/jan/18/jimmy-savile-abused-1000-victims-bbc



    When it comes to good characters like Robin Williams, that's when people say taking your own life is never justified but when it comes to abusers, that gets completely thrown out so it can't be a definitive statement.



    I don't think it's an action that has to be justified by anyone. It's a personal choice about someone's own existence and that existence will come to an end all by itself no matter what choices people make.

     

    What you describe is an atheist's creed.

     

    An atheist owes no-one anything, and is free to kill his own life or anyone else's with no consequences (or so he thinks). 

     

    A Christian owes his life to God and has a responsibility to God. One of the Ten Commandments is, 'Thou shalt not kill.'

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  • Reply 74 of 103
    crowleycrowley Posts: 10,453member

    "Atheists" don't believe they are free to takes anyone else's life without consequences.  Psychopaths do.  And there are plenty of religious psychopaths, including many that identify as Christians.

     

    As an atheist I'll defend to the death my right to take my own life.  If that sends me to hell (it won't) then so be it.

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  • Reply 75 of 103
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Crowley View Post

     

    "Atheists" don't believe they are free to takes anyone else's life without consequences.  Psychopaths do.  And there are plenty of religious psychopaths, including many that identify as Christians.

     

    As an atheist I'll defend to the death my right to take my own life.  If that sends me to hell (it won't) then so be it.


     

    An atheist is free to do whatever he can get away with; he has no reason to do otherwise. He can make up rules for himself to suit himself, as you are doing with suicide. 

     

    It's one way to live.

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  • Reply 76 of 103
    crowleycrowley Posts: 10,453member
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    Originally Posted by Benjamin Frost View Post

     

     

    An atheist is free to do whatever he can get away with; he has no reason to do otherwise.


    Empathy.

     

    Apparently you need a supernatural being and the threat of an unpleasant afterlife to feel kinship with your fellow human beings.  Others don't.

     

     

    Plus, y'know, society and community and all those things that exist perfectly fine without any manifestation of a divine being too.

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  • Reply 77 of 103
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Crowley View Post

     
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Benjamin Frost View Post

     

     

    An atheist is free to do whatever he can get away with; he has no reason to do otherwise.


    Empathy.

     

    Apparently you need a supernatural being and the threat of an unpleasant afterlife to feel kinship with your fellow human beings.  Others don't.

     

     

    Plus, y'know, society and community and all those things that exist perfectly fine without any manifestation of a divine being too.


     

    So there'd be no crime if everyone had empathy? Got it.

     

    We all have a choice to be good or bad. For an atheist, there are no boundaries. For a Christian, the path is narrow.

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  • Reply 78 of 103
    crowleycrowley Posts: 10,453member

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Benjamin Frost View Post

     

     

    So there'd be no crime if everyone had empathy? Got it.


     

    I get the feeling you're trying to be sarcastic and dismissive, but actually you're pretty much on the money.  Maybe not no crime, since "crime" is quite a broad thing, but the world would certainly be a better place with more empathy.  I believe your Bible preaches it (though there's no way you get to claim it as uniquely Christian).

     

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Benjamin Frost View Post

     

     

    We all have a choice to be good or bad. For an atheist, there are no boundaries. For a Christian, the path is narrow.


     

    The paths are exactly the same width.  A good person is a good person, whether or not they believe in a magic old man in the clouds.  And the Christian path hasn't always been straight in the direction of goodness, it's had a number of chicanes and 180s.

     

    There are lots of very horrible god fearing people out there, so enough with this narrow path supremacist horseshit.

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  • Reply 79 of 103
    comleycomley Posts: 139member
    Just once why can't you
    keep it respectful and honour Great actor
    It is sad when somebody dies for them and family my heart goes out to His family.
    Rest in peace
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  • Reply 80 of 103
    Marvinmarvin Posts: 15,586moderator
    Actually, in both the case of gunshots and fire, the pain receptors will typically shut off in cases of extreme pain. The affected areas just go numb.

    The comedian Richard Pryor tried to kill himself by pouring alcohol on himself and lighting it:




    "When that fire hit your ass, it will sober your ass up quick! I saw something, I went, "Well, that's a pretty blue. You know what? That looks like... FIRE! Fire is inspirational. They should use it in the Olympics, because I ran the 100 in 4.3."

    It's slow and painful. The specific options aren't important, the point was if it was between a slow, painful, inevitable, natural route or a quick self-inflicted route, the latter is the better option as they both end the same way.
    Anyone with a painful or terminal illness can offer their experiences to the advancement of better care and finding a cure or vaccine.

    You can say that about anyone without a terminal illness. Would you volunteer to undergo medical experiments to help cure ailments? Why limit it to victims? Christopher Reeve who was close friends with Robin Williams had to live for 9 years in a wheelchair:

    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2722888/Closer-brothers-Robin-Williams-extraordinary-friendship-Christopher-Reeve-penniless-roommates-Hollywood-highs-helping-save-friends-life.html

    "Reeve later told Barbara Walters that he ‘wanted to die’ until his despair was lifted by an unexpected visit from his old friend Williams.
    Reeve recalls how Williams showed up at the hospital pretending to be an eccentric Russian proctologist who was going to perform a rectal exam on him.
    ‘I lay on my back, frozen, unable to avoid thinking the darkest thoughts,’ wrote Reeve.
    ‘Then, at an especially bleak moment, the door flew open and in hurried a squat fellow with a blue scrub hat and a yellow surgical gown and glasses, speaking in a Russian accent. He announced that he was my proctologist and that he had to examine me immediately.
    ‘My first reaction was that either I was on way too many drugs or I was in fact brain damaged,’ wrote Reeve.
    ‘For the first time since the accident, I laughed. My old friend had helped me know that somehow I was going to be okay.’"

    http://abcnews.go.com/Entertainment/story?id=101123

    "You look out the window, and you can't believe where you are," he said. "And the thought that keeps going through your mind is, 'This can't be my life. There's been a mistake.'"

    But despair turned into determination, and Reeve's will to live prevailed. With the support of his wife, he became America's leading advocate for spinal cord injury research, raising money, writing books, testifying before Congress and giving motivational speeches all over the country."

    As you rightly said, people can do some good even in those circumstances but the vast majority of people can't. Reeve did some good because of his celebrity status. A random person with the same injury couldn't have done that and wouldn't have the same level of support. Also, it doesn't mean a cure will come along.
    If one has contracted Ebola, should they have the right to commit suicide?

    Of course. You're saying they should be made to suffer against their will? The symptoms are horrible:



    I don't get why people think the more compassionate route is to force victims to suffer.
    What you describe is an atheist's creed.
    An atheist owes no-one anything, and is free to kill his own life or anyone else's with no consequences (or so he thinks).
    A Christian owes his life to God and has a responsibility to God. One of the Ten Commandments is, 'Thou shalt not kill.'
    An atheist is free to do whatever he can get away with; he has no reason to do otherwise. He can make up rules for himself to suit himself, as you are doing with suicide.

    Everybody picks and chooses what rules they follow. Elevating man-made rules to the status of authority from an unaccountable deity causes this to happen:

    http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/2014/08/14/robin-williams-britain-first_n_5678587.html
    crowley wrote:
    As an atheist I'll defend to the death my right to take my own life.

    The fortunate thing is that you don't have to as long as you are physically able. Having a right to do it doesn't matter when someone does it because they can't be punished for that choice. Fictional after-life punishments are used to control people's actions in the present. Unfortunately, people who aren't physically able to do this continue to suffer because of the lack of compassion from other human beings.
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