This is really disgusting. Yet another way to cheapen the marital act!
The "marital" act? That's hilarious. My friend, modern humans have been around for about 300,000 years. Marriage began about 4400 years ago. So what do you think humans were doing in those first 295,000 marriage-free years?
This is really disgusting. Yet another way to cheapen the marital act!
The "marital" act? That's hilarious. My friend, modern humans have been around for about 300,000 years. Marriage began about 4400 years ago. So what do you think humans were doing in those first 295,000 marriage-free years?
Why, living the way G*d intended, of course!
…until man invented organised religion and decided He knew better what G*d intended.
rickwil61 said: Can you tell me what sex outside of marriage has accomplished?
Only the entirety of the natural world around you.
Obviously sex is the means by which humans reproduce but not just sex by itself. Sex needs a structure and the backbone of human civilization has been the family. That social structure has provided more stability and growth than any other. Sex outside of that structure produces single moms overburdened with the responsibility of raising children by themselves. It also produces fatherless children without the guidance and protection a two parent home can provide. Now obviously people can get through such situations and they do it every day. But that way will not thrive like a healthy family will and I think history bears that out. When the family breaks down then so does society. We are currently living in such a time.
This is really disgusting. Yet another way to cheapen the marital act!
LOL at the puritan who thinks sex has anything to do with marriage.
Sex inside a healthy marriage is a powerful force for good. It creates families and strengthens the bond between the husband and wife which contributes to a stable home for children to grow up in. Can you tell me what sex outside of marriage has accomplished? Notice that I’m not questioning anybody’s right to do it because they have the right. My question is what good has come from such behavior?
What good is coming from your behaviour on this forum? Are you doing God’s work by annoying the Bejesus out of people and driving them away?
Or are you just enjoying it?
Nice diversion but you can’t answer the question can you? Why should you be annoyed at anything I say? I haven’t insulted anybody. I didn’t even mention God. You did that. I just asked a question and I think it was a fair one. If your way is better then tell us how it is so.
This is really disgusting. Yet another way to cheapen the marital act!
LOL at the puritan who thinks sex has anything to do with marriage.
Sex inside a healthy marriage is a powerful force for good. It creates families and strengthens the bond between the husband and wife which contributes to a stable home for children to grow up in. Can you tell me what sex outside of marriage has accomplished? Notice that I’m not questioning anybody’s right to do it because they have the right. My question is what good has come from such behavior?
What good is coming from your behaviour on this forum? Are you doing God’s work by annoying the Bejesus out of people and driving them away?
Or are you just enjoying it?
Nice diversion but you can’t answer the question can you? Why should you be annoyed at anything I say? I haven’t insulted anybody. I didn’t even mention God. You did that. I just asked a question and I think it was a fair one. If your way is better then tell us how it is so.
You are asking what good comes from a particular behaviour. I replied by asking what good comes from your particular behaviour.
You're so wrapped up in not reading what you don't want to read that you didn't even realise that I supplied you the answer to YOUR question:
This is really disgusting. Yet another way to cheapen the marital act!
The "marital" act? That's hilarious. My friend, modern humans have been around for about 300,000 years. Marriage began about 4400 years ago. So what do you think humans were doing in those first 295,000 marriage-free years?
Yeah lol. Could bring himself to type 's e x' so put in 'martial act' instead.
This is really disgusting. Yet another way to cheapen the marital act!
LOL at the puritan who thinks sex has anything to do with marriage.
Sex inside a healthy marriage is a powerful force for good. It creates families and strengthens the bond between the husband and wife which contributes to a stable home for children to grow up in. Can you tell me what sex outside of marriage has accomplished? Notice that I’m not questioning anybody’s right to do it because they have the right. My question is what good has come from such behavior?
What good is coming from your behaviour on this forum? Are you doing God’s work by annoying the Bejesus out of people and driving them away?
Or are you just enjoying it?
Nice diversion but you can’t answer the question can you? Why should you be annoyed at anything I say? I haven’t insulted anybody. I didn’t even mention God. You did that. I just asked a question and I think it was a fair one. If your way is better then tell us how it is so.
You are asking what good comes from a particular behaviour. I replied by asking what good comes from your particular behaviour.
You're so wrapped up in not reading what you don't want to read that you didn't even realise that I supplied you the answer to YOUR question:
Enjoyment.
Sex brings joy.
You didn’t provide an answer in your first response. You asked a diversionary question. Your second response was an answer to my question, so let’s go with that. Sex brings joy. It can do that in the right circumstance, such as a healthy marriage, but it can also bring heartache in the wrong circumstance. How much joy is there for a woman who ends up with an unwanted pregnancy and the guy decides not to stay around? Or how much joy is there for someone of either gender that can get all the sex they want but that’s all they get? New night, new partner, but no love or relationship. The only value is the pleasure you bring someone else or that they can bring you and when that no longer happens then move on to the next one. That kind of life can be exciting for a while but sooner or later it will leave you empty. Imagine living a life of having more partners than you can shake a stick at but in the end, you’re just alone. Doesn’t sound too joyful to me. Then there’s the issue of STDs which can affect yourself or your partner for the rest of your life. Ask someone with herpes about the joy of that disease!
So now I’ll answer your question, what good comes from my behavior on this forum? Since a forum is a public place to discuss ideas, my purpose is to present a different point of view on things that I think are important and maybe ask some questions about views that are commonly accepted. Especially when the popular view is more harmful than helpful. I think marriage is an important institution and that families are the bedrock of a society. I also think the casual view of sex that is so common in our culture is destructive. If I can ask some questions that will lead someone to think about what they’re doing and maybe choose a better path than they’re on, then some good will have come from that. If what I say doesn’t make sense to people, then they certainly have the right to do it their way. The point of our discussion is that I wanted to know what sex outside of marriage accomplishes. Your answer is enjoyment. Ok, but I think it accomplishes that and so much more inside a marriage. Enjoy,
This is really disgusting. Yet another way to cheapen the marital act!
LOL at the puritan who thinks sex has anything to do with marriage.
Sex inside a healthy marriage is a powerful force for good. It creates families and strengthens the bond between the husband and wife which contributes to a stable home for children to grow up in. Can you tell me what sex outside of marriage has accomplished? Notice that I’m not questioning anybody’s right to do it because they have the right. My question is what good has come from such behavior?
What good is coming from your behaviour on this forum? Are you doing God’s work by annoying the Bejesus out of people and driving them away?
Or are you just enjoying it?
Nice diversion but you can’t answer the question can you? Why should you be annoyed at anything I say? I haven’t insulted anybody. I didn’t even mention God. You did that. I just asked a question and I think it was a fair one. If your way is better then tell us how it is so.
You are asking what good comes from a particular behaviour. I replied by asking what good comes from your particular behaviour.
You're so wrapped up in not reading what you don't want to read that you didn't even realise that I supplied you the answer to YOUR question:
Enjoyment.
Sex brings joy.
You didn’t provide an answer in your first response. You asked a diversionary question.
I asked THREE questions, the third one of which was, verbatim, "Or are you just enjoying it?"
I put that there very deliberately, expecting that you would miss that it was the answer — since phrasing it as a question requires a readiness on your part to reflect on your own behaviour.
But that's obviously not in the cards for this week.
This is really disgusting. Yet another way to cheapen the marital act!
LOL at the puritan who thinks sex has anything to do with marriage.
Sex inside a healthy marriage is a powerful force for good. It creates families and strengthens the bond between the husband and wife which contributes to a stable home for children to grow up in. Can you tell me what sex outside of marriage has accomplished? Notice that I’m not questioning anybody’s right to do it because they have the right. My question is what good has come from such behavior?
What good is coming from your behaviour on this forum? Are you doing God’s work by annoying the Bejesus out of people and driving them away?
Or are you just enjoying it?
Nice diversion but you can’t answer the question can you? Why should you be annoyed at anything I say? I haven’t insulted anybody. I didn’t even mention God. You did that. I just asked a question and I think it was a fair one. If your way is better then tell us how it is so.
You are asking what good comes from a particular behaviour. I replied by asking what good comes from your particular behaviour.
You're so wrapped up in not reading what you don't want to read that you didn't even realise that I supplied you the answer to YOUR question:
Enjoyment.
Sex brings joy.
You didn’t provide an answer in your first response. You asked a diversionary question.
I asked THREE questions, the third one of which was, verbatim, "Or are you just enjoying it?"
I put that there very deliberately, expecting that you would miss that it was the answer — since phrasing it as a question requires a readiness on your part to reflect on your own behaviour.
But that's obviously not in the cards for this week.
Actually you didn't ask me a question. What you did was make an accusation in the form of a question. In your question you accused me of coming here to annoy people and then asked me if I enjoyed that. Since I reject the premise of your question (that I'm here to annoy people), I didn't feel that your "question" merited a response. Remember, all I did was ask what good has came from sex outside of marriage. I didn't accuse anybody of anything, or call anybody any names. I was just asking about the benefits of a lifestyle that so many want to defend. Why does that annoy you?
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…until man invented organised religion and decided He knew better what G*d intended.
Sex brings joy.
So now I’ll answer your question, what good comes from my behavior on this forum? Since a forum is a public place to discuss ideas, my purpose is to present a different point of view on things that I think are important and maybe ask some questions about views that are commonly accepted. Especially when the popular view is more harmful than helpful. I think marriage is an important institution and that families are the bedrock of a society. I also think the casual view of sex that is so common in our culture is destructive. If I can ask some questions that will lead someone to think about what they’re doing and maybe choose a better path than they’re on, then some good will have come from that. If what I say doesn’t make sense to people, then they certainly have the right to do it their way. The point of our discussion is that I wanted to know what sex outside of marriage accomplishes. Your answer is enjoyment. Ok, but I think it accomplishes that and so much more inside a marriage. Enjoy,
But that's obviously not in the cards for this week.