Would you find a disabled girl hotter than an obese or ugly girl?
I'm watching the first episode of Britain's next top model. Oops. I mean "Britains Missing Model". Check it out on http://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/ ...For me the deaf girl (the one that doesn't talk at all) is really cute and is just a bubble of joy.
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In my order of preference, from a more physical point of view... Because we can debate personality until the end of time...
No disability, slightly chubby
=win
No disability, skinny
=hmm, personality is very important here for long term
Disability: Medical (like some sort of underlying frailty - hard to explain unless you've watched the show above)
=if she's cute...
Disability: Deaf (does not speak)
=I'd consider getting to know her
Disability: Missing a limb or having one limb a stump
=I'd consider getting to know her. Not sure if I am balls enough a man though with other people around when I am with her.
Disability: Walks funny (like brain damage) but talks quite normal, cute
=interesting... this is a very interesting one, I don't know
Disability: Wheelchair (paralysed waist down)
=for me this might be quite challenging
No disability, physically quite unattractive without being overweight
=hmm, tough
Obese girl
=sorry, difficult
Disability: Deaf (speaks "funny")
=very difficult for me, even if she is super hot, maybe I would get used to it. Just the shock of a pretty girl then talking like that...
I've dated a mostly deaf girl before (she could hear just a bit, and could read lips). The only issue was that you had to directly address her. Not a big deal as far I was concerned.
Ever see Children of a Lesser God?
Marlee Matlin is hot! (Well, maybe not 42 year old her).
I almost dated a girl with a prosthetic leg before. The problem came with her personality... her physical disability had turned her into this monster of a jealous "victim" who blamed everything and anything on her disability. It was actually very frightening when you have someone calling you 30 times in a night (when I'm just trying to get some sleep) and screaming "Who are you f***ing!? That UGLY f***ing whore!!!???" Then when I told her I didn't want to see her any more, she said, "You are such an asshole... you can't accept my disability!!!!"
Wow. That's fked up dude...
2. Love is blind.
Getting a hard-on doesn't count as a meaningful emotion given the fact that men put up with it for most of our lives irrespective of the relationship we are in.
Jesus, what a thread.
WWJFH
Who Would Jesus Find Hotter?
1. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
2. Love is blind... Getting a hard-on doesn't count as a meaningful emotion given the fact that men put up with it for most of our lives irrespective of the relationship we are in.
Yeah, I agree in general. Erections for example are a separate situation. Especially it is on-demand now with various medication. (In the age of "push" and "on-demand" entertainment we also have "on-demand" erections) ...Nonetheless a strong erectile response when you are talking to or hugging a girl, usually means some element of physical attraction. One can also "make love" to a woman while not even having an erection (I leave you all to figure out the mechanics of that)...
In Psych 101 at uni we learnt that some postulate that "Love" is a combination of physical attraction, mental/mind compatibility, and a "hidden perception of soulmates" or something like that. Can't remember.
WWJFH Who Would Jesus Find Hotter?
LoL there should be shirts instead of "What would Jesus do?", they should have "Who would Jesus do?".
http://flickr.com/photos/bbc_three/2595793382/
This is Jessica. It's a kind of complicated medical disability she has... She has a very classical English pixiette (I made that word up) look.
WWJFH
Who Would Jesus Find Hotter?
WARNING: RELIGIOUSLY OFFENSIVE
"And behold, the Lord looked upon a woman that came onto His path, He looked at her gently, and then beseeched, 'Yes, I would hit it*'... And the disciples nodded at each other, and proceeded to scribe her name and wherefore she hailed from onto the List of the Lord... Following which the woman was rendered onto her a small parchment (valid only for 3 seasons) for a garment proclaiming as follows:
*Hit it as in the slang of something like this http://idhitit.org/
T-shirt made using http://www.jellymuffin.com/generators/tshirt/
~Quote from scroll exposed in "The Real Da Vinci Code Explained" (2010).
Yeah, I agree in general. Erections for example are a separate situation. Especially it is on-demand now with various medication. (In the age of "push" and "on-demand" entertainment we also have "on-demand" erections) ...Nonetheless a strong erectile response when you are talking to or hugging a girl, usually means some element of physical attraction. One can also "make love" to a woman while not even having an erection (I leave you all to figure out the mechanics of that)...
The reflex is in charge of finding treasure in the dark
And watching over lucky clover isnt that bizarre
Every little thing the reflex does leaves you answered with a
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Yeah, I agree in general. Erections for example are a separate situation. Especially it is on-demand now with various medication. (In the age of "push" and "on-demand" entertainment we also have "on-demand" erections) ...Nonetheless a strong erectile response when you are talking to or hugging a girl, usually means some element of physical attraction. One can also "make love" to a woman while not even having an erection (I leave you all to figure out the mechanics of that)...
I've learned more about love and sex and relationships from this one post than I ever could have from all my years of experience in such matters. Would that I had read it before I began my journey into adulthood.
I've learned more about love and sex and relationships from this one post than I ever could have from all my years of experience in such matters. Would that I had read it before I began my journey into adulthood.
OMG. It's all so clear now.
Yeah, I agree in general.
Analysis.
Erections for example are a separate situation.
Information.
Especially it is on-demand now with various medication.
Smart cultural commentary.
(In the age of "push" and "on-demand" entertainment we also have "on-demand" erections)
Science.
...Nonetheless a strong erectile response when you are talking to or hugging a girl, usually means some element of physical attraction.
Advice.
One can also "make love" to a woman while not even having an erection
And mystery.
(I leave you all to figure out the mechanics of that)...
I'm going to quilt that post onto a pillow.