Well after being married for six years and knowing my wife since the sixth grade....Note a good idea to waste your time with some one who you know is not the one !!!! ie office girl...saying you would never cheat sounds good...but the fact that you have a crush....sounds like you just whant sex.....nothing wrong with that ...except she is a coworker...and it will only make trouble...and you have a girl friend...if you fight all the time ...and you dont like that there are soooooo many girls .....to choose from ...get out of the relationship fast....dont let any one crush your fun time ...as far as I can see ...as a man.... I dont like getting JIVE ...from any woman {mother included}...or fighting ...what a waste of time ...think about what you fight about ..and was it worth the emotional roller coaster????
PS I'm in a somewhat fulfilling relationship.....does not cut it get out now before it is to late!!!!
There are plenty of well educated strong independant woman with great jobs...who would give what you want.....you live at your house {and keep it that way} and she has her place {and keep it that way} then just meet for fun IE you stay at her place ...and she can stay at your place ...on weekends etc...
PSS my wife and I have said that if any thing ever happend to one of us ie die etc... the chance's of remarring are slim to none....marrage is note easy ...+ haveing a two month old boy+ starting a business..etc... life is to short have fun...you can make more money but you cant make more trime!!!inho
Never claim otherwise and I think that goes for the whole pot, kettle, black comment too. I understand people, but that doesn't mean I sympathize. As for myself, my depths are utterly irrelevant, why chase something that may not exist?
As for women and men, and what they say about each other, I don't agree that women have been saying that about men (except as a meaningless generalization akin to male complaints about the female need for conversation, shopping, someone to listen?) As a person, no women has ever called me shallow, but that doesn't mean much -- I know enough to get me through at least a half a dozen conversations without any indication that, basically, pretty much, that's all that's going on up there.
None of that makes me wrong about the contents of this thread so far.
Well after being married for six years and knowing my wife since the sixth grade....Note a good idea to waste your time with some one who you know is not the one !!!! ie office girl...saying you would never cheat sounds good...but the fact that you have a crush....sounds like you just whant sex.....nothing wrong with that ...except she is a coworker...and it will only make trouble...and you have a girl friend...if you fight all the time ...and you dont like that there are soooooo many girls .....to choose from ...get out of the relationship fast....dont let any one crush your fun time ...as far as I can see ...as a man.... I dont like getting JIVE ...from any woman {mother included}...or fighting ...what a waste of time ...think about what you fight about ..and was it worth the emotional roller coaster????
PS I'm in a somewhat fulfilling relationship.....does not cut it get out now before it is to late!!!!
There are plenty of well educated strong independant woman with great jobs...who would give what you want.....you live at your house {and keep it that way} and she has her place {and keep it that way} then just meet for fun IE you stay at her place ...and she can stay at your place ...on weekends etc...
PSS my wife and I have said that if any thing ever happend to one of us ie die etc... the chance's of remarring are slim to none....marrage is note easy ...+ haveing a two month old boy+ starting a business..etc... life is to short have fun...you can make more money but you cant make more trime!!!inho
well, regarding the most serious option .. ie you are in a a marriage, and JUST find The One in work environment etc, what would you suggest doing? In this case it really does not sound like The One though, but if it was -- I'd choose no way keeping the Image of being One of whatever .. keeping the facade marriages / relations keeping on etc. So if it was .. The One .. what can I say? Go for it. Or just wait for some time and the time in most cases resolves the issue automatically. The old fake one fades away.
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Originally posted by addabox
Chook?
chook: chicken
feeding the chooks: masturbation
bum nuts: what chooks lay
Originally posted by crazychester
chook: chicken
feeding the chooks: masturbation
bum nuts: what chooks lay
Now that's going to come in handy.....
I just like giving ya the gears b/c I think you're full of shit, and far too proud of your modern ethics as regards such things...
Originally posted by Matsu
I think you're full of shit
Here's looking at you, kid.
if I were a female I might find you to be something of a shallow male nightmare
LOL!
Well, it is funny because this came from a man.
Women have been saying that about most of the men they met all along.
PS I'm in a somewhat fulfilling relationship.....does not cut it get out now before it is to late!!!!
There are plenty of well educated strong independant woman with great jobs...who would give what you want.....you live at your house {and keep it that way} and she has her place {and keep it that way} then just meet for fun IE you stay at her place ...and she can stay at your place ...on weekends etc...
PSS my wife and I have said that if any thing ever happend to one of us ie die etc... the chance's of remarring are slim to none....marrage is note easy ...+ haveing a two month old boy+ starting a business..etc... life is to short have fun...you can make more money but you cant make more trime!!!inho
Originally posted by crazychester
Here's looking at you, kid.
Never claim otherwise and I think that goes for the whole pot, kettle, black comment too. I understand people, but that doesn't mean I sympathize. As for myself, my depths are utterly irrelevant, why chase something that may not exist?
As for women and men, and what they say about each other, I don't agree that women have been saying that about men (except as a meaningless generalization akin to male complaints about the female need for conversation, shopping, someone to listen?) As a person, no women has ever called me shallow, but that doesn't mean much -- I know enough to get me through at least a half a dozen conversations without any indication that, basically, pretty much, that's all that's going on up there.
None of that makes me wrong about the contents of this thread so far.
Originally posted by G2G
Well after being married for six years and knowing my wife since the sixth grade....Note a good idea to waste your time with some one who you know is not the one !!!! ie office girl...saying you would never cheat sounds good...but the fact that you have a crush....sounds like you just whant sex.....nothing wrong with that ...except she is a coworker...and it will only make trouble...and you have a girl friend...if you fight all the time ...and you dont like that there are soooooo many girls .....to choose from ...get out of the relationship fast....dont let any one crush your fun time ...as far as I can see ...as a man.... I dont like getting JIVE ...from any woman {mother included}...or fighting ...what a waste of time ...think about what you fight about ..and was it worth the emotional roller coaster????
PS I'm in a somewhat fulfilling relationship.....does not cut it get out now before it is to late!!!!
There are plenty of well educated strong independant woman with great jobs...who would give what you want.....you live at your house {and keep it that way} and she has her place {and keep it that way} then just meet for fun IE you stay at her place ...and she can stay at your place ...on weekends etc...
PSS my wife and I have said that if any thing ever happend to one of us ie die etc... the chance's of remarring are slim to none....marrage is note easy ...+ haveing a two month old boy+ starting a business..etc... life is to short have fun...you can make more money but you cant make more trime!!!inho
well, regarding the most serious option .. ie you are in a a marriage, and JUST find The One in work environment etc, what would you suggest doing? In this case it really does not sound like The One though, but if it was -- I'd choose no way keeping the Image of being One of whatever .. keeping the facade marriages / relations keeping on etc. So if it was .. The One .. what can I say? Go for it. Or just wait for some time and the time in most cases resolves the issue automatically. The old fake one fades away.
Originally posted by powermacG6
You have a crush on Common Man too?