the kind that just blow you away when you see them, has been seen by me. Well, anyway...what I want to ask advice about is how to go about getting her comfortable with me. I see her everyday at school for one class. We used to sit on opposite sides of the room and I took the opportunity the a day she was absent to move into a seat near her. I just will tell her it was because i was talking to too much, and the teacher moved me, if she asks me why I was moved. The thing is, there are only like 9 weeks left in the school year, of my senior year in high school, prom is coming up and shes totally untaken. Maybe go out on a limb and ask her?
How does anyone sort of slowly move from being casual talkers to asking someone to a formal ocassion?
Notes are good, as long as they are short - a card or something of that type. Flowers are good as well. Both flowers and notes are risky though, because you can no longer pretend that it is just friendship - but if you want to find any real love in this world you need to take risks, to put yourself in danger of ridicule.
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Trust me. You are deadmeat if any future girl see pictures of past girls.
Au contraire - there is nothing better than having a girl think other hot women are after you.
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Would it be bad to tell her my favorite word is this: tenesmus
n : painful spasm of the anal sphincter along with an urgent
desire to defecate without the significant production of
feces; associated with irritable bowel syndrome
Don't ever tell her this - forget that you ever liked this word. Stay away from this word - it will destroy you.
Notes are good, as long as they are short - a card or something of that type. Flowers are good as well. Both flowers and notes are risky though, because you can no longer pretend that it is just friendship - but if you want to find any real love in this world you need to take risks, to put yourself in danger of ridicule.
We have ourselves a "notes man" over here! Hey, i cant see real good is that Bill Shakespeare over there? Well, ladee frickin da! Instead of usin' that paper for writin' notes you'll use it for rolling...
Boy, I still miss Farley.
I may still do the note, it's always worked for me. A cold call once worked for me. Totally random, I just called the girl up and asked her if she knew who I was. She said she did and I asked her if she wanted to hang out, she said yes. 4 days later we were official. I do have balls, I think notes take more balls than flat out talk.
I think it's different strokes for different folks, I really do. People claim and talk all this shit like they've done it all. I'd like to see someone write out a good note and have it NOT work, in my experience it has probably been 50/50. Probably the bad results, resulted from a bad note. It does not really matter, in any case you are showing you care and are conveying the point that you want to hang out. I dont believe in the philosophy that people have saying: "If you dont say yes, **** you, I can move on."
With this girl, I seem to feel that either would be alright. I'm opting for just word of mouth though. Less suspense.
Notes are wonderful, and yes, I have piles...all from women I've been in relationships with. NOT from the little passers in my life slipping me their # and saying niceties. Those go directly in the trash (if they're not hot).
And yes, I've done it all.
Congratulations on wasting your 1000th post replying to this.
Forget everything I have ever asked you to do. Please if you want this friendship (?) to go forward, DO NOT WRITE her a note. Talk to the lady. Talk. Words ushering from your mouth. It is far easier to come off as creepy when writing a letter than it is to do so while talking to her in person. Trust me, this is personal experience talking...
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Originally posted by HOM
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Put any pics in a lockbox and on disk put them in 128 bit encrypted Disk Images. Better safe than sorry.
n : painful spasm of the anal sphincter along with an urgent
desire to defecate without the significant production of
feces; associated with irritable bowel syndrome
Originally posted by Messiahtosh
the kind that just blow you away when you see them, has been seen by me. Well, anyway...what I want to ask advice about is how to go about getting her comfortable with me. I see her everyday at school for one class. We used to sit on opposite sides of the room and I took the opportunity the a day she was absent to move into a seat near her. I just will tell her it was because i was talking to too much, and the teacher moved me, if she asks me why I was moved.
How does anyone sort of slowly move from being casual talkers to asking someone to a formal ocassion?
haha im so immature about this shit.
Kill her pets.
Originally posted by Messiahtosh
Theyre gone. Would it be bad to tell her my favorite word is this: tenesmus
n : painful spasm of the anal sphincter along with an urgent
desire to defecate without the significant production of
feces; associated with irritable bowel syndrome
Get snipped. We don't need you reproducing.
Trust me. You are deadmeat if any future girl see pictures of past girls.
Au contraire - there is nothing better than having a girl think other hot women are after you.
Would it be bad to tell her my favorite word is this: tenesmus
n : painful spasm of the anal sphincter along with an urgent
desire to defecate without the significant production of
feces; associated with irritable bowel syndrome
Don't ever tell her this - forget that you ever liked this word. Stay away from this word - it will destroy you.
Originally posted by Rick1138
Au contraire - there is nothing better than having a girl think other hot women are after you.
This only works if both girls are in the same room. Anything else breeds suspicion and jealous and mistrust - whether justified or not.
Try it and find out yourself
Originally posted by Rick1138
Notes are good, as long as they are short - a card or something of that type. Flowers are good as well. Both flowers and notes are risky though, because you can no longer pretend that it is just friendship - but if you want to find any real love in this world you need to take risks, to put yourself in danger of ridicule.
We have ourselves a "notes man" over here! Hey, i cant see real good is that Bill Shakespeare over there? Well, ladee frickin da! Instead of usin' that paper for writin' notes you'll use it for rolling...
Boy, I still miss Farley.
I may still do the note, it's always worked for me. A cold call once worked for me. Totally random, I just called the girl up and asked her if she knew who I was. She said she did and I asked her if she wanted to hang out, she said yes. 4 days later we were official. I do have balls, I think notes take more balls than flat out talk.
Originally posted by Messiahtosh
Theyre gone. Would it be bad to tell her my favorite word is this: tenesmus
n : painful spasm of the anal sphincter along with an urgent
desire to defecate without the significant production of
feces; associated with irritable bowel syndrome
Originally posted by Rick1138
Notes are good, as long as they are short - a card or something of that type.
Worst advice EVER. Notes are the kiss of death for you ever having the chance of dating any of her hot girlfriends if she turns you down.
RULE #1: Never put anything in writing...until she agrees to marry you.
With this girl, I seem to feel that either would be alright. I'm opting for just word of mouth though. Less suspense.
And yes, I've done it all.
Congratulations on wasting your 1000th post replying to this.
Originally posted by Messiahtosh
Question, how do you get that special thing below your name? Instead of senior member.
Let murbot pick one out for you.
Originally posted by Messiahtosh
Question, how do you get that special thing below your name? Instead of senior member.
First, you ask Brad to run the recount script, and then keep posting here for another month. Second, go here and beg.
Originally posted by Messiahtosh
Ok, ok...I have settled on my course of action. I'm gonna drop the note bomb on her.
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!
Forget everything I have ever asked you to do. Please if you want this friendship (?) to go forward, DO NOT WRITE her a note. Talk to the lady. Talk. Words ushering from your mouth. It is far easier to come off as creepy when writing a letter than it is to do so while talking to her in person. Trust me, this is personal experience talking...
Originally posted by Messiahtosh
Ok, ok...I have settled on my course of action. I'm gonna drop the note bomb on her.
Maybe you should post the note *here* first. We'll help you write it.